When Love goes Sour

These Lines are not meant to provoke argument or cause discord&confusion, neither are they meant to draw unnecessary attention or inspire pity&consolation,it is inspired by empathy,honesty&sincerety: PLEASE!!! Ensure dat it is absolutely necessary b4 u break up with someone,if either or both parties have come to a point of agreement dat its in their interest to be apart,then do as follows (1)when breaking up with someone,try not to twist d blade in their wound,do ur best to explain why things will not work out&explain why it is in ur partner's interest for you guys to be apart(2)Show Empathy&be considerate,try to understand how the person feels&allow them say it,allow dem 2insult u&express their frustrations, but try 2make it a conversation&not a proclamation or a decree (3)Try not to speak with anger in your voice or disregard in your tone,because any careless comment you make in the heat of argument&in d midst of disagreement, will be held against you&may be hard to forgive(4)Learn to 4giv first&dont force dem to 4giv u,giv then time to allow their hearts bleed&heal naturally,dnt try to stitch or patch it,true healing leaves no internal bleeding&takes some time (4)The best&ultimate gift u can giv ur Ex is 2stay out of their Lives but u may giv dem attention, calls or text when dey really need u to&not just wen u want to&if u av it very Lucky,u&ur Ex will still be friends, but dis is very rare.So its hard to deny d truth in d saying dat goes that "Friendship can easily Lead to Love,but Love can not easily lead to friendship".BE Careful&watch d hearts you break. When u leave people, try 2 Leave a smile behind on ur trail, becos some hearts once broken take long 2heal&may never truely recover, so watch d ground on which u thread&try to thread gently...u may b just one person in d world&yet mean d whole world to one person...After falling in Love,try to walk in Love&not just remain fallen...there are few things dat gives life its value&love is one of them,when love is there its not hard to se that LIFE is beautiful..:-)